Yeah I’ve definitely stopped doing things that I think will harm the community (I’ve reduced flirting a lot). But that said I think the kinds of people likely to reduce behaviours are (unlike me) the people who least need to.
I think for most people, they need not worry. And for those that do, there are ways they can avoid harmful patters—avoid events where those patterns occur, go on courses, talk to friends and develop strategies to avoid them.
I don’t think we need to be martyr’s here, and for 99.9% of people there is a way for their social needs to be met in the community. But like 1% of people will have to change a bit.
Yeah I’ve definitely stopped doing things that I think will harm the community (I’ve reduced flirting a lot). But that said I think the kinds of people likely to reduce behaviours are (unlike me) the people who least need to.
I think for most people, they need not worry. And for those that do, there are ways they can avoid harmful patters—avoid events where those patterns occur, go on courses, talk to friends and develop strategies to avoid them.
I don’t think we need to be martyr’s here, and for 99.9% of people there is a way for their social needs to be met in the community. But like 1% of people will have to change a bit.