I think both (1) and (2) are sufficiently mild/non-nefarious versions of “repeating talking points” that they’re very different from what people might imagine when they hear “techniques associated with cult indoctrination”—different enough that the latter phrase seems misleading.
(E.g., at least to my ears, the original phrase suggests that the communication techniques you’ve seen involve intentional manipulation and are rare; in contrast, (1) and (2) sound to me like very commonplace forms of ineffective (rather than intentionally manipulative) communication.)
(As I mentioned, I’m sympathetic to the broader purpose of the post, and my comment is just picking on that one phrase; I agree with and appreciate your points that communication along the lines of (1) and (2) happen, that they can be examples of poor communication / of not building from where others are coming from, and that the “skill mastery” perspective could help with this.)
I think both (1) and (2) are sufficiently mild/non-nefarious versions of “repeating talking points” that they’re very different from what people might imagine when they hear “techniques associated with cult indoctrination”—different enough that the latter phrase seems misleading.
(E.g., at least to my ears, the original phrase suggests that the communication techniques you’ve seen involve intentional manipulation and are rare; in contrast, (1) and (2) sound to me like very commonplace forms of ineffective (rather than intentionally manipulative) communication.)
(As I mentioned, I’m sympathetic to the broader purpose of the post, and my comment is just picking on that one phrase; I agree with and appreciate your points that communication along the lines of (1) and (2) happen, that they can be examples of poor communication / of not building from where others are coming from, and that the “skill mastery” perspective could help with this.)