Thanks for this post. However, I find myself disagreeing with the implicit hedonistic perspective here.
If you could choose, which would you prefer?
The excruciating, “maybe infinite” pain, for 1 hour (no long-term consequences)
The death of your child (permanent)
I’m not sure if there’s a single human alive that would choose (2) over (1). Even if you gave someone a 5-minute sample of the excruciating pain, they’d still choose the 1-hour version over the death of their child, guaranteed.
But children die all the time! That’s the point of the AMF and similar charities. If you prioritize animals, you may want to consider whether they care about the deaths of their offspring.
First of all, I doubt it. People don’t even commit suicide to avoid 1 hour pain (usually the suicide-due-to-pain people are those who don’t anticipate ever getting better).
Second, even assuming you’re right, what happens in that world is that the emotional pain still trumps the actual pain. Like, if people prefer their own pain to their child’s death, then the death of a child is worse than the pain of a hermit (someone with no family). It’s not necessarily worse than the pain for a child… but only if that child has parents. Is that your model? It has important implications.