Perhaps, “Take this extremely seriously. Imagine how I [you] am feeling right now, do you really want to cause that?” and maybe “If you continue to cause issues like this, things probably won’t go well for you and is this really a good place for you?”
Perhaps show them this piece? I think many people can improve at this, but those that can’t would probably be better served by leaving earlier.
Sorry to hear about the harassment, glad it’s not happened in EA spaces, they tend to be pretty careful about this stuff.
Perhaps, “Take this extremely seriously. Imagine how I [you] am feeling right now, do you really want to cause that?” and maybe “If you continue to cause issues like this, things probably won’t go well for you and is this really a good place for you?”
Perhaps show them this piece? I think many people can improve at this, but those that can’t would probably be better served by leaving earlier.
Sorry to hear about the harassment, glad it’s not happened in EA spaces, they tend to be pretty careful about this stuff.