But that’s conditional on people not interpreting the hugboxing as a tactic/weird norm. E.g. mormon missionaries being nice to people doesn’t elicit the same response as a person off the street because they adjust their set point.
Can you give examples of hugboxing you don’t like?
Because my internal response is “people think we are too aggressive/dismissive” rather than “people think we listen to them but in a weird/patronising way” and if you mean internally you don’t like it, then I am confused as to why you read it.
But that’s conditional on people not interpreting the hugboxing as a tactic/weird norm. E.g. mormon missionaries being nice to people doesn’t elicit the same response as a person off the street because they adjust their set point.
Can you give examples of hugboxing you don’t like?
Because my internal response is “people think we are too aggressive/dismissive” rather than “people think we listen to them but in a weird/patronising way” and if you mean internally you don’t like it, then I am confused as to why you read it.
On the forum I agree hugboxing is worse.