LW4EA: How to Not Lose an Argument

This is part of LessWrong for EA, a LessWrong repost & low-commitment discussion group (inspired by this comment). Each week I will revive a highly upvoted, EA-relevant post from the LessWrong Archives, more or less at random

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The science of winning arguments is called Rhetoric, and it is one of the Dark Arts. Its study is forbidden to rationalists, and its tomes and treatises are kept under lock and key in a particularly dark corner of the Miskatonic University library. More than this it is not lawful to speak.

But I do want to talk about a very closely related skill: not losing arguments.

Rationalists probably find themselves in more arguments than the average person. And if we’re doing it right, the truth is hopefully on our side and the argument is ours to lose. And far too often, we do lose arguments, even when we’re right. Sometimes it’s because of biases or inferential distances or other things that can’t be helped. But all too often it’s because we’re shooting ourselves in the foot.

How does one avoid shooting one’s self in the foot? In rationalist language, the technique is called Leaving a Social Line of Retreat. In normal language, it’s called being nice. (Full Post on LW)

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