I should add that I’m grateful for the many EAs who don’t engage in dishonest behavior, and that I’m equally grateful for the EAs who used to be more dishonest, and later decided that honesty was more important (either instrumentally, or for its own sake) to their system of ethics than they’d previously thought. My insecurity seems to have sadly dulled my warmth in my above comment, and I want to be better than that.
I find it difficult to combine “I want to be nice and sympathetic and forgiving of people trying to be good people and assume everyone is” with “I think people are not taking this seriously enough and want to tell you how seriously it should be taken”. It’s easier to be forgiving when you can trust people to take it seriously.
I’ve kind of erred on the side of the latter today, because “no one criticises dishonesty or rationalisation because they want to be nice” seems like a concerning failure mode, but it’d be nice if I were better at combining both.
Thanks. May I ask what your geographic locus is? This is indeed something that I haven’t encountered here in Berlin or online. (The only more recent example that comes to mind was something like “I considered donating to Sci-Hub but then didn’t,” which seems quite innocent to me.) Back when I was young and naive, I asked about such (illegal or uncooperative) options and was promptly informed of their short-sightedness by other EAs. Endorsing Kantian considerations is also something I can do without incurring a social cost.
Thank you! I really admired how compassionate your tone was throughout all of your comments on Sarah’s original post, even when I felt that you were under attack . That was really cool. <3
I’m from Berkeley, so the community here is big enough that different people have definitely had different experiences than me. :)
Oh yeah, the Berkeley community must be huge, I imagine. (Just judging by how often I hear about it and from DxE’s interest in the place.) I hope the mourning over Derek Parfit has also reminded people in your circles of the hitchhiker analogy and two-level utilitarianism. (Actually, I’m having a hard time finding out whether Parfit came up with it or whether Eliezer just named it for him on a whim. ^^)
The hitchhiker is mentioned in Chapter One of Reasons and Persons. Interestingly, Parfit was more interested in the moral implications than the decision-theory ones.
I should add that I’m grateful for the many EAs who don’t engage in dishonest behavior, and that I’m equally grateful for the EAs who used to be more dishonest, and later decided that honesty was more important (either instrumentally, or for its own sake) to their system of ethics than they’d previously thought. My insecurity seems to have sadly dulled my warmth in my above comment, and I want to be better than that.
I find it difficult to combine “I want to be nice and sympathetic and forgiving of people trying to be good people and assume everyone is” with “I think people are not taking this seriously enough and want to tell you how seriously it should be taken”. It’s easier to be forgiving when you can trust people to take it seriously.
I’ve kind of erred on the side of the latter today, because “no one criticises dishonesty or rationalisation because they want to be nice” seems like a concerning failure mode, but it’d be nice if I were better at combining both.
Thanks. May I ask what your geographic locus is? This is indeed something that I haven’t encountered here in Berlin or online. (The only more recent example that comes to mind was something like “I considered donating to Sci-Hub but then didn’t,” which seems quite innocent to me.) Back when I was young and naive, I asked about such (illegal or uncooperative) options and was promptly informed of their short-sightedness by other EAs. Endorsing Kantian considerations is also something I can do without incurring a social cost.
Thank you! I really admired how compassionate your tone was throughout all of your comments on Sarah’s original post, even when I felt that you were under attack . That was really cool. <3
I’m from Berkeley, so the community here is big enough that different people have definitely had different experiences than me. :)
Oh, thank you! <3 I’m trying my best.
Oh yeah, the Berkeley community must be huge, I imagine. (Just judging by how often I hear about it and from DxE’s interest in the place.) I hope the mourning over Derek Parfit has also reminded people in your circles of the hitchhiker analogy and two-level utilitarianism. (Actually, I’m having a hard time finding out whether Parfit came up with it or whether Eliezer just named it for him on a whim. ^^)
The hitchhiker is mentioned in Chapter One of Reasons and Persons. Interestingly, Parfit was more interested in the moral implications than the decision-theory ones.
Thanks!