It can be hard to parse between what we view as the gradient between reasonable and unreasonable assumptions
Thanks for bringing this up, I think I did significantly update to being a bit more okay with folks being ignorant, or having false assumptions. It’s tough! I would probably make the same mistakes too and would want some space to fumble around and correct myself.
Having that space/slack that strikes me as very valuable. Maybe it is somewhat analogous to the idea of psychological safety that gets talked about so often when discussing company culture.
Some of my most frustrating inter-personal situations involved me being judged harshly for getting something wrong in which (in my perspective) it was totally reasonable and understandable for me to make a guess and get it wrong.
Thanks for bringing this up, I think I did significantly update to being a bit more okay with folks being ignorant, or having false assumptions. It’s tough! I would probably make the same mistakes too and would want some space to fumble around and correct myself.
Having that space/slack that strikes me as very valuable. Maybe it is somewhat analogous to the idea of psychological safety that gets talked about so often when discussing company culture.
Some of my most frustrating inter-personal situations involved me being judged harshly for getting something wrong in which (in my perspective) it was totally reasonable and understandable for me to make a guess and get it wrong.