ex-CEA
Minimally passive community building work in Malaysia
ex-CEA
Minimally passive community building work in Malaysia
Hmm you’re right, thanks for catching this. I think I probably have some false prior that culture warm terms are more affiliated with internet memes? But yeah, makes sense that a term could be both.
It can be hard to parse between what we view as the gradient between reasonable and unreasonable assumptions
Thanks for bringing this up, I think I did significantly update to being a bit more okay with folks being ignorant, or having false assumptions. It’s tough! I would probably make the same mistakes too and would want some space to fumble around and correct myself.
Hmm I think you’re right! I don’t think my advice doesn’t seem to be solving this issue.
Perhaps a better advice is to just read more about the norms of the country first? And expect such poor CCIs to happen and allow for space to have meta-conversations around what’s appropriate?
Ah, thanks for pointing that out.
And I appreciate the praise!
I also feel somewhat confused too. I agree that e.g., Black African Americans are probably pretty close to the category of “West”. At the time, I was thinking about the trade off between including people who are sort of in the middle of West and non-West, and having a clearer demarcation between West vs non-West to reduce noise.
I don’t think I have a lot of strong reasons, but I thought the clearer demarcation is more important. If folks disagree about my decision, happy to hear more!
Got it, this was helpful. Thanks!
most prominently transforming LessWrong into something that looks a lot more respectable in a way that I am worried might have shrunk the overton window of what can be discussed there by a lot, and having generally contributed to a bunch of these dynamics
Would you mind sharing a bit more of what you mean here?
I’m not sure I understand how an increase in respectability in LessWrong equates to a shrinking overton window. I would have guessed the opposite—an increase in respectability would have shifted or expanded the overton window in ways that are more epistemically desirable. But I feel like I’m missing something here.
Also, I feel appreciative that you’ve shared a bunch of concerns and learnings with us.
Another thing I’ve noticed—folks from elite cultures seem less inclined to mix and hangout with non-elite cultures.
Somewhat adjacent to your “culture clash” segment. I’ve noticed folks from “perceived-to-be-higher-status-cultures” hijacking (probably unconsciously) norms or spaces where there are more folks from “perceived-to-be-lower-status-cultures”.
Thanks for writing this up! Some rough thoughts about the LMIC category:
1. I think the LMIC is a pretty useful category insofar as it’s used as “non-high-income-countries”.
2. Otherwise, I worry that folks might conflate with LMICs as just “low income countries”, when most countries in the LMIC category are lower to upper middle income (or developing).
3. I have a light preference for separating LMICs into two categories: “least developed countries” and “middle income countries”.
A few people have mentioned about buckets (1, 2) as a way to segment different parts of your life. Each bucket has a corresponding goal or set of goals that you spend resources on. Since we all have many different goals, it’s a useful exercise to distribute resources between them accordingly, so one bucket doesn’t “eat” into another bucket’s resources. For example, you might have a bucket for your close friends, in which you spend a few hours a week of your time to cultivate genuine and happy friendships but not more, since you have other important buckets (e.g. career, health, family, etc).[1]
However, if buckets are not mutually exclusive, collective exhaustible enough, you might encounter issues where you might label activities for the wrong buckets—creating more tension between your different goals.
A corollary to this is my claim that EAs should try to have “serious EA” bucket or “fun EA” bucket.
“Serious EA” means trying to apply EA principles genuinely and taking significant action, like donating to effective charities or working in an EA org.
“Fun EA” means the more casual and social aspect of EA, like going to social meetups or volunteering.
For example, I have a local EA event that I’d like to help out with and spend time with EAs. Sometimes, I accidentally mistake this activity as something from my “serious EA” bucket, and not from my “fun EA” bucket or my general “volunteer for fun” bucket.
How did this happen? Maybe because it’s so easy to default any kind of EA activity as always maximising impact (e.g. I have went all out in EAGs when I should have taken them slightly more casually). Or maybe I want to signal to others that I care about effectiveness (e.g. being a community builder means modelling good applications of EA principles). Or maybe I’m unconsciously working to build status, differentiate the in-group vs out-group, or all of the above.
This can come out in ways that worked against me.
Spending too much resources on volunteering, so I now have less resources for my “serious EA” bucket, and I feel more unhappy about it.
Giving off too much serious and responsible vibes, when it should be a bit more casual and fun.
Newer inspiring EAs might observe and learn that they “should” be more serious, but in the wrong contexts.
Hence, keeping these two buckets separate seem more conducive to having a more productive and happy life. However, I also feel uncertain how useful or true my claim is.
I’ve observed that some people (including me sometimes) are able to have fun and be serious at around the same time, which indicates some fast organic switching of buckets.
I also think that treating certain EA volunteer opportunities as a genuine exercise for people to apply EA principles seriously seems like a good idea. I know some people (including me) who practiced applying EA principles while volunteering, and learned a lot along the way.
Perhaps there are other buckets that should be included.
“Buckets” are just another reframed term that has been used similarly in many other contexts. I’ve first learned about “life areas” from Alex Vermeer.
Thanks for the comment! Not sure if you’ve seen this, but there’s weak evidence that poor CCIs occur less frequently in EA settings than non-Ea settings.