One of the best experiences I’ve had at a conference was when I went out to dinner with three people that I had never met before. Seeing the popularity of matching systems like Donut in Slack workspaces, I wonder if something analogous could be useful for conferences. I’m imagining a system in which you sign up for a timeslot (breakfast, lunch, or dinner), and are put into a group with between two and four other people. You are assigned a location/restaurant that is within walking distance of the conference venue, so the administrative work of figuring out where to go is more-or-less handled for you. I’m no sociologist, but I think that having a small group is better for conversation than a large group, and better than a two-person group. An MVP version of this could perhaps just be a Google Sheet with some RANDBETWEEN formulas.
The topics of conversation were pretty much what you would expect for people attending an EA conference: we spoke about interpersonal relationships, careers, moral philosophy, miscellaneous interests, general life advice, and so on. None of us were taking any notes. None of us sent any follow up emails. We weren’t seeking advice on projects. We were simply eating dinner and conversing.
When I claim this was one of the best experiences, I don’t mean “best” in the sense of “most impactful,” but rather as as 1) fairly enjoyable/comfortable, 2) distinct from the talks and the one-on-ones (which often tend to blur together in memory), and 3) I felt like I was actually interacting with people rather than engaging in “the EA game.”[1] I think that third aspect felt like the most important for me.
Of course, if could simply be that this particular group of individuals just happened to mesh well, and that this specific situation it isn’t something which can be easily replicated.
“The EA game” is very poorly conceptualized on my part. I apologize for the sloppiness of it, but I’ll emphasize that this is a loose concept that I’ve just started thinking about, rather than something more rigorous. I think of it as something along the lines of “trying to extract value or trying to produce value.” Exploring job opportunities, sensing if someone is open to a collaboration of some type, getting advice on career plans, picking someone’s brain on their area of expertise, getting intel on new funders and grants, and so on. It is a certain type of professional and para-professional networking. You have your game face on, because there is some outcome that is dependent on your actions and on how people perceive you. This is in contrast to something like interacting without an agenda, or being authentic and present.
@Christoph Hartmann has developed a tool that might be useful! Might try to see if we can use it at EAGxUtrecht. Below is a message he sent me explaining it:
idea for EAGx: Last time I went I loved the program but I felt facilitating interaction especially outside core conference hours could’ve been easier. I built an app that would make it super easy for people to find each other to go to a restaurant, go bouldering, discuss longtermism, go to a bar, etc. Would love to bring this to EAGx: https://letss.app/
Thanks for tagging me! Fully agree with you Joseph that an easier way to socialise with strangers at conferences would be great and that’s exactly what I’m trying to do with this app. Let me know if you know anybody organising conferences or communities for whom this could be helpful.
One of the best experiences I’ve had at a conference was when I went out to dinner with three people that I had never met before. Seeing the popularity of matching systems like Donut in Slack workspaces, I wonder if something analogous could be useful for conferences. I’m imagining a system in which you sign up for a timeslot (breakfast, lunch, or dinner), and are put into a group with between two and four other people. You are assigned a location/restaurant that is within walking distance of the conference venue, so the administrative work of figuring out where to go is more-or-less handled for you. I’m no sociologist, but I think that having a small group is better for conversation than a large group, and better than a two-person group. An MVP version of this could perhaps just be a Google Sheet with some RANDBETWEEN formulas.
The topics of conversation were pretty much what you would expect for people attending an EA conference: we spoke about interpersonal relationships, careers, moral philosophy, miscellaneous interests, general life advice, and so on. None of us were taking any notes. None of us sent any follow up emails. We weren’t seeking advice on projects. We were simply eating dinner and conversing.
When I claim this was one of the best experiences, I don’t mean “best” in the sense of “most impactful,” but rather as as 1) fairly enjoyable/comfortable, 2) distinct from the talks and the one-on-ones (which often tend to blur together in memory), and 3) I felt like I was actually interacting with people rather than engaging in “the EA game.”[1] I think that third aspect felt like the most important for me.
Of course, if could simply be that this particular group of individuals just happened to mesh well, and that this specific situation it isn’t something which can be easily replicated.
“The EA game” is very poorly conceptualized on my part. I apologize for the sloppiness of it, but I’ll emphasize that this is a loose concept that I’ve just started thinking about, rather than something more rigorous. I think of it as something along the lines of “trying to extract value or trying to produce value.” Exploring job opportunities, sensing if someone is open to a collaboration of some type, getting advice on career plans, picking someone’s brain on their area of expertise, getting intel on new funders and grants, and so on. It is a certain type of professional and para-professional networking. You have your game face on, because there is some outcome that is dependent on your actions and on how people perceive you. This is in contrast to something like interacting without an agenda, or being authentic and present.
@Christoph Hartmann has developed a tool that might be useful! Might try to see if we can use it at EAGxUtrecht. Below is a message he sent me explaining it:
Thanks for tagging me! Fully agree with you Joseph that an easier way to socialise with strangers at conferences would be great and that’s exactly what I’m trying to do with this app. Let me know if you know anybody organising conferences or communities for whom this could be helpful.