Killing the wasps

I’ve been pushing a moral dilemma to one side in my mind for a few months now. After Killing the ants and Killing the moths, here’s the third installment in the unofficial “invertebrate trilogy.”


One of the bedrooms in my flat keeps getting wasps in. I think they’re crawling through gaps in our old English windows.

They arrive low-energy. Some fly around briefly, but mostly they just crawl up and down the glass (or along the floor) and slowly die. Sometimes I gather them up in a cup and release them outside. But given it’s getting colder, I’m not sure that’s much better. Is it better to slowly die in my flat or out in the cold?

We also had mice recently. For them, we found a humane trap and released them outside [1].


Wasps are scary too.

It’s easy to have sympathy for them when they’re crawling around slowly. But when the higher-energy ones get in, it’s easy to lose that sympathy (which then makes me feel bad).

It’s also easy to worry about how much of my attention this is taking up. I could be helping way more invertebrates by focusing on my job. But instead I’m on Reddit threads learning about insecticides, and putting little spoons of honey and water out for the wasps [2], and writing this post...

I know I probably care about these wasps more than most people would. To most, this isn’t even a dilemma, it’s just pest control. But to me it feels like a big deal, and I can’t quite shake that.


Our landlord came around for a flat inspection and we told him about the wasp problem. He said he could probably fly a drone and spread insecticide to deal with the nest.

I think this is a good thing? There’s probably a more humane way of doing it, but it’s probably best to kill the nest?

A few weeks later, we got an email from our landlord with some bullet points, one of which was:

Wasps—After investigation we believe they are in the hollow part of the sash window frame. We’re looking at a way of sealing it up.

The strange thing is: I do think killing the nest is probably the right call. But I’m deeply uncomfortable with that conclusion. Which feels absurd, given that my work is literally to help kill animals better. And yet here I am, agonising over wasps.


These wasps have been buzzing in my ear—literally and figuratively—for weeks, occupying way more of my attention than they probably should. I could be helping orders of magnitude more invertebrates by just focusing on my actual work. But I can’t seem to let it go.

I wanted to write this post to alleviate some guilt and close the loop in my mind.

I don’t have a clean resolution here. I think killing the nest is probably right. I’m also uncomfortable with that reality. And I’m bothered by how much headspace this has taken up.

But I suppose the point is: these trade-offs are messy, the ‘right’ answer isn’t obvious, and sometimes all we can do is sit with the discomfort rather than pretend it doesn’t exist.

  1. ^

    But again, is this good? Leaving a mouse to fend for themself in the cold? I just couldn’t bring myself to buy a lethal trap. Which is strange, fundamentally, given my job is to get animals killed humanely (in contexts where they’d otherwise die slowly).

  2. ^

    Which is probably also bad? It’s my partner’s honey, but still...