In 2021 I tried asking about SBF among what I suppose you could call “EA leadership”, trying to distinguish whether to put SBF into the column of “keeps compacts but compact very carefully” versus “un-Lawful oathbreaker”, based on having heard that early Alameda was a hard breakup. I did not get a neatly itemized list resembling this one on either points 1 or 2, just heard back basically “yeah early Alameda was a hard breakup and the ones who left think they got screwed” (but not that there’d been a compact that got broken) (and definitely not that they’d had poor capital controls), and I tentatively put SBF into column 1. If “EA leadership” had common knowledge of what you list under items 1 or 2, they didn’t tell me about it when I asked. I suppose in principle that I could’ve expended some of my limited time and stamina to go and inquire directly among the breakup victims looking for one who hadn’t signed an NDA, but that’s just a folly of perfect hindsight.
My own guess is that you are mischaracterizing what EA leadership knew.
I think EAs could stand to learn something from non-EAs here, about how not to blame the victim even when the victim is you.