I do think pseudonymity is the right way to solve this. It’s plausible that we might want to make name-changes easier, so if you create a pseudonymous account, you can later take ownership over it more properly, if it turns out to not have embarassed you.
Meanwhile, name changes aren’t yet easy, but I’m happy to change a username if you ask! I can also transfer a pseudonymous post to your “real name” account if you have one and want to take ownership.
Do people not find it viable to post under a pseudonym? Is your worry about coming across as dishonest?
I do think pseudonymity is the right way to solve this. It’s plausible that we might want to make name-changes easier, so if you create a pseudonymous account, you can later take ownership over it more properly, if it turns out to not have embarassed you.
Meanwhile, name changes aren’t yet easy, but I’m happy to change a username if you ask! I can also transfer a pseudonymous post to your “real name” account if you have one and want to take ownership.