I agree this is an important point I probably didn’t discuss enough. Value drift is real, as is getting used to a high salary.
I suspect that a strong community is one way to reduce this, but might be easier said than done depending on where someone lives.
I can’t recall the paper, but I remember reading a paper in moral psychology that argues that on a psychological level, we think of morality in terms of ‘is this person moral’, not ‘is this act moral’. We are trying to figure out if the person in front of us is trustworthy, loyal, kind, etc.
In the study, participants do say that a human experiencing harm is worse than an animal experiencing harm, but view a person who hits a cat as more immoral than a person who hits their spouse. I think what people are implicitly recoiling at is that the person who hits a cat is more likely to be a psychopath.
I think this maps pretty well onto the example here, and the outrage of people’s reactions. And to clarify, I think this explanation captures WHY people react the way they do in the descriptive sense. I don’t think that’s how people ought to react.