Amber, I also shared this on twitter and this is the response I got: https://twitter.com/keerthanpg/status/1591515890109255680?s=20&t=WobT4rLWtpPRSOryCTlDxw
None of them walked away with your conclusions. The response from within EA forum, the people who can take action from within, was a completely different distribution. You’re interpreting my post, not as it is written, but as it is implied to you. But I am only responsible for what I say, not what you think I said.
Ultimately, no action was taken on my post and EA remains unsafe, partly because of you.
Your feeling attacked is slightly unwarranted, because everywhere I mention poly men in the article, I say “these poly men”, “many poly men”, I never say “all poly men”. It’s hard for me to write a post anticipating what you could imply from it, right?
In fact poly women have the most incentive to stop bad poly male actors because they’re more dangerous to you than they are to me. I will never enter into a relationship with them because they’re a disjoint dating pool for me, but they’re lurking in your pool, making you unsafe more than me. And not just that they harm one poly woman, each bad poly male actor will harm multiple by definition, so that multiple poly women are traumatized and driven away from EA due to one poly bad male actor.