Hi!
Currently (Oct 2022) mostly doing translations and community building in Italy, and some web development consulting part-time.
I’m also a forum mod, which, shamelessly stealing from Edo, “mostly means that I care about this forum and about you! So let me know if there’s anything I can do to help.”
Please have a very low bar for reaching out!
Used to be a Software Developer donating most of my income, and won the 2022 donor lottery, happy to chat about that as well
Hey everyone, the moderators want to point out that this topic is heated for several reasons:
Lots of relevant information comes from people’s personal experiences, which will vary a lot.
Harassment and power dynamics are often emotionally loaded and can be difficult to discuss objectively.
Polyamory is something that a lot of the world stigmatizes, so some people will be defensive (whether merited or not), and some will be subconsciously biased against it. This makes it hard to discuss without assuming that some people are hostile.
So we want to ask everyone to be especially understanding and generous when discussing topics this sensitive.
And as a reminder, harassment is unacceptable. One resource that exists for this is the Community Health Team at CEA. You can get in touch with the team here. If you ever experience harassment of any kind on the Forum, please reach out to the moderation team.