Good post, and I strongly agree. My preferred handle for what you’re pointing at is ‘integrity’. Quoting @Habryka (2019):
I think of integrity as a more advanced form of honesty […] Where honesty is the commitment to not speak direct falsehoods, integrity is the commitment to speak truths that actually ring true to yourself, not ones that are just abstractly defensible to other people. It is also a commitment to act on the truths that you do believe, and to communicate to others what your true beliefs are.
(In this frame, What We Owe the Future, for example, was honest but low integrity.)
my fave is @Duncan Sabien’s ‘Deadly by Default’